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KCF DNW & DW Letter
Sep. 15th, 2024 11:45 amKCF DNW & DW List
Hello Dear Creator!
Below you will find a rather extensive list of my likes and dislikes for this exchange. Apologies if this is rather long, I wanted to be thorough, haha. All the DNW are obviously something I don’t want, but the DW list is there to suggest and peak your interest, peruse as you will!
Finally, the one thing I would like you to know about me is that I LOVE romance in my ships. The tension, the pining, the buildup, the foreplay - all of that is just delicious and really makes the smut shine for me.
Other than that, I’m sure you’ll do great and that I’ll love whatever you put together! Thank you for all your time and effort!
DNW - Do Not Wants
Explicit Rape and Non Con:
- Child is physically forced or held down, blackmailed by adult or parent, child is kidnapped or forcibly adopted
- Child is heavily manipulated, gaslight, or doubts their own enjoyment, but is forced to go along with it
- Sexual Grooming from a young age (below 12) by Adult in relationship; sexual abuse portrayed on screen (mentioned is fine, see DW below)
Specific Incest DNWs:
- Families or a world where incest or pedophilia is normalized, a world where consent laws are removed or lowered
- Characters who don’t think twice about committing either, Incest present in couple’s family beyond the primary couple
- Incest portrayed as villainous or morally evil
Violence: Strong Physical or Sexual Violence to any character; Threat of violence to child by their adult; Mild Blood and Injury to child or adult sustained through combat or the like is fine (i.e. I want up to Rated T for violence and E for the smut)
Mothers, Older Sisters, Women, or Femme Presenting Folk in sexual/romantic relationship with the Child; These kinds of characters in the background is fine
Smut & Kinks
- Anal Sex, Diaper Play, Scat, Piss Play, Knife Play, Blood Play, Necrophilia, Cannibalism, Castration, sexual mutilation or injury to genitals, medical play, beastiality
- Sex w/ no plot or romance, plot what plot stories, emotionless sex
- Heavy focus on genital descriptions (such as “his throbbing hard eight inch cock”)
General DNW
- No AUs such as Omegaverse (a/b/o) or crossovers with other universes. Generally keep it to a Modern AU (or fantasy AU for those specific tags that call for it)
- No 2nd POV
- No ambiguous or open ended endings, please give the main couple a romantic happily ever after
Bigotry:
- Racism, Sexism, Homophobia, Ableism, or Transphobia
- Trans characters portrayed by non queer/trans authors
Do Wants - Things that I actively enjoy
Romance (my number one request)
- Relationship between Adult and Child depicted as romantic
- Falling in Love, Slow Burn Romance, Growing Affection and connection between Child and Adult; going on dates, dating in secret, and other slice of life moments, public displays of affection (i.e. taking your little girlfriend out to a restaurant in public and being affectionate even if it's on the DL)
- Physical Intimacy, especially non-sexual; characters who enjoy touch as a love language, cuddle, sleep together, and/or spend time together outside of sex, sharing clothes, living together, playing at domesticity
- Fluff (there is never too much fluff for me, go wild!), emotional intimacy, emotionally significant sex that pushes forward the narrative of the couple's relationship
Grooming / Light Coercion, but romanticize it
- There is manipulation present, but child still wants it; is in love with their groomer; grooming portrayed as positive
- Father and child or two siblings who were historically too close growing up, overly attached, and/or affectionate; other forms of emotional grooming
- Mention of Abuse at home, especially if Groomer is saving them from it
- Discussion of Power Imbalance and still proceeding anyway, regardless; feelings of guilt over incest, worry about taking advantage of the other, etc
- The world can be harsh and cruel, but the couple's relationship is not
Smut & Kinks
- Incest: Blood related father & child or siblings; Adult and child who play at or wish they were related such
- Oral fixations: Making out, lip biting, hickies, biting in general, finger sucking, cockwarming, father who just NEEDS to eat out his baby (would LOVE if you included an oral scene like this)
- Petnames (examples and suggestions): dad, daddy; babygirl/boy, princess, little girl/boy, good girl/boy, kid, kiddo, babylove, my little jailbait (and combinations thereof)
- Clothing that emphasizes the child’s role/age: tiny jean shorts or skirts, spaghetti strap tank tops, little girl style panties, training bras, schoolgirl outfits, innocent lolita outfits, stolen shirt or hoodie from their Adult that's oversized on them and nothing else
- (For Child Age: Teen) Ageplay, Virginity Play, Grooming Play; teen pretending to be younger (8-12) holding a stuffie, being called petnames that emphasize how small and young they are; playing at loosing their virginity to their adult partner, i.e. “will you take my virginity to erase the abuse I’ve suffered”
- (For Child Age: Tween or Teen) Adult lovingly taking their virginity, showing them their body and sexual pleasures, helping them explore their sexuality; going at the speed the child is comfortable with
- Additional Kinks: Gratuitous Praise Kink, Daddy kink, dd/lg, Size Difference, Cockwarming (mouth or vagina), Possessiveness, Femme Child/Teen with flat or flatter chest who’s a little insecure about their size (but their adult loves them); Child is embarrassed by their sexuality, but enjoys the funny feelings their getting
- Adult eating out child, PiV sex, biting and leaving hickies, sensual touch, masterbating each other, child sitting in Adult’s lap while being touched
Characters
- Adult Character: Cis or Trans Man, Trans masc person*, who is a father, father figure, older brother or older sibling figure, guardian, mentor, or otherwise finds himself in relationship with child character (and maybe likes to pretend to be their father)
- Child Character: Cis or trans girl, trans masc boy*, general preference for child character to have a vagina; character might literally or figuratively be child of adult, babysitter, mentee, neighborhood kid, friend of adult’s child, etc
- Age Ranges: for child character, 12-16; for adult character, 30s to 40s
- Additional Side Characters: who have emotionally significant friendships or non romantic relationships with either of the main couple, including friends, confidants, schoolmates or co-workers, and/or family members (if writing non-incest); characters that support and root for the main couple
(*I request that author only writes trans characters if they feel comfortable writing them authentically and/or is trans themself. Requester is trans, as an fyi.)
